Wednesday, May 27, 2020

The Healing Power of Proper Breathing


How we inhale and exhale has profound effects on our health- and not just during a crisis like the pandemic.
—This essay is adapted from James Nestor’s new book, “Breath: The New Science of a Lost Art”,   published on May 26 by Riverhead Booksand and is reprinted from the Wall Street Journal.


Breathing is not an activity that anyone is feeling confident about right now. We spend our days covering our mouths and noses with masks, struggling to inhale and exhale. We toss and turn at night, worried that we might be feeling a cough coming on or some tightness in our chests. Covid-19 has turned us into a planet of breath-obsessed people.
But as hard as it might be to fathom now, there is a silver lining here: Breathing is a missing pillar of health, and our attention to it is long overdue.
Most of us misunderstand breathing. We see it as passive, something that we just do. Breathe, live; stop breathing, die. But breathing is not that simple and binary. How we breathe matters, too.
Inside the breath you just took, there are more molecules of air than there are grains of sand on all the world’s beaches. We each inhale and exhale some 30 pounds of these molecules every day—far more than we eat or drink. The way that we take in that air and expel it is as important as what we eat, how much we exercise and the genes we’ve inherited.

Doctors who study breathing say that the vast majority of Americans do it inadequately.
This idea may sound nuts, I realize. It certainly sounded that way to me when I first heard it several years ago while interviewing neurologists, rhinologists and pulmonologists at Stanford, Harvard and other institutions. What they’d found is that breathing habits were directly related to physical and mental health.

Breathing properly can allow us to live longer and healthier lives. Breathing poorly, by contrast, can exacerbate and sometimes cause a laundry list of chronic diseases: asthma, anxiety, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, hypertension and more. Poor breathing habits can even change the physical structure of our skeletons, depleting essential minerals and weakening our bones.
The ancients understood this. Almost every major religion and many cultures—from the Greeks to the Buddhists, Hindus to Native Americans—considered proper breathing essential to health. Starting around 400 B.C., Chinese scholars wrote several books on breath, believing that it could be a medicine or a poison, depending on how we used it. “Therefore, the scholar who nourishes his life refines the form and nourishes his breath,” says a Tao text. “Isn’t this evident?”
Not really. Think back to your last health check-up. Chances are that your doctor took your blood pressure, pulse and temperature and then placed a stethoscope to your chest to listen to your heart and lungs. Maybe she discussed diet, taking vitamins, stresses at work. Any issues digesting food? How about sleep? Were the seasonal allergies getting worse? But she likely never checked your respiratory rate or breathing habits. And yet how we breathe affects all of these things, and much more.
Today, doctors who study breathing say that the vast majority of Americans do it inadequately.
We can blame some of our poor breathing habits on morphological changes in the human skull. Over the past 300,000 years, our mouths and sinuses have shrunk. It’s gotten so bad that today humans are the only species whose teeth no longer fit in our mouths; they grow in crooked. A smaller mouth and obstructed nose make it harder to breathe. Humans now have the sad distinction of being the most plugged-up species in the animal kingdom.
We can also blame our middle-aged bodies. Starting around 30, bones in the chest become thinner and collapse inward. We lose about 12% of our lung capacity by the time we hit 50, and then the decline speeds up. We’re forced to breathe faster and harder, making it even more difficult just to catch a breath.
But it’s not all bad news. Unlike problems with other parts of the body, such as the liver or kidneys, we can improve the airways in our too-small mouths and reverse the entropy in our lungs at any age. We can do this by breathing properly.
In the 1980s, researchers with the Framingham Study, a 70-year research program focused on heart disease, gathered two decades of data from 5,200 subjects, crunched the numbers and discovered that the greatest indicator of life span wasn’t genetics, diet or the amount of daily exercise, as many had suspected. It was lung capacity. Larger lungs equaled longer lives. Because big lungs allow us to get more air in with fewer breaths. They save the body from a lot of unnecessary wear and tear.
That’s the first step in healthy breathing: extending breaths to make them a little deeper, a little longer. Try it. For the next several minutes, inhale gently through your nose to a count of about five and then exhale, again through your nose, at the same rate or a little more slowly if you can. This works out to about six breaths a minute.
When we breathe like this we can better protect the lungs from irritation and infection while boosting circulation to the brain and body. Stress on the heart relaxes; the respiratory and nervous systems enter a state of coherence where everything functions at peak efficiency. Just a few minutes of inhaling and exhaling at this pace can drop blood pressure by 10, even 15 points.
Two New York psychiatrists, Richard Brown and Patricia Gerbarg, found that patients who practiced these slow-and-low breaths could blunt the symptoms of anxiety, depression and other mental disorders. It even helped 9/11 survivors restore airway damage caused by debris, a horrendous condition called ground-glass lungs. Where other therapies failed, breath alone offered significant improvement.
By building healthy breathing habits we can stop the entropy of our respiratory systems and increase our lung capacity. We can also reduce—or in some remarkable cases, reverse—modern maladies such as asthma and allergies and even emphysema and autoimmune diseases.
Last year, I wanted to see just how dramatically breathing habits—good and bad ones—could affect my own brain and body. I’d learned that up to 50% of us are chronic mouth breathers, a problem well described by an ancient Tao text: “The breath inhaled through the mouth is called ‘Ni Ch’i, adverse breath,’ which is extremely harmful.”
Scientists have known for decades that inhaling through this pathway saps the body of moisture, irritates the lungs and loosens the soft tissues at the back of the mouth. Mouth breathing has also been linked with neurological disorders, periodontal disease and increased risk of respiratory infection. But nobody knew how quickly this damage came on.

Working with Dr. Jayakar Nayak, chief of rhinology research at Stanford’s Otolaryngology Head and Neck Surgery Center, I spent 10 awful days with silicon plugs up my nose, breathing only through my mouth. Within a single night, my formerly minimal snoring increased 13-fold. I suddenly had sleep apnea. My blood pressure shot up to stage 2 hypertension while my stress levels spiked and cognitive scores plummeted. I felt anxious, stressed, fatigued.
Within a day of switching back to nasal breathing, my snoring began to revert and soon was almost gone. I went from having two dozen sleep apnea events a night to zero. My blood pressure dropped 20 points from its peak. The other subject in the experiment suffered the same damage from mouth breathing and the same restoration from nasal breathing.
Which brings us to the second step in healthy breathing: Breathe through your nose. Nasal breathing not only helps with snoring and some mild cases of sleep apnea, it also can allow us to absorb around 18% more oxygen than breathing through our mouths. It reduces the risk of dental cavities and respiratory problems and likely boosts sexual performance. The list goes on.
Covid-19 has forced modern medicine to broaden its outlook and look for new solutions, even in the wisdom of the past. Fortunately, a remedy for many of our chronic health problems is right under our noses. It requires no batteries, Wi-Fi, headgear or smartphones. It costs nothing and takes little time and effort. It’s a therapy our ancestors self-administered for thousands of years with only their lips, noses and lungs. Let’s hope that this time around we don’t forget it.The Healing Power of Proper Breathing
How we inhale and exhale has profound effects on our health= and not just during a crisis like the pandemic

Saturday, May 23, 2020

Reflexology, a Quick Nutshell


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Our feet have about 7,500 nerve endings, connected to our inner organs. As we age, these nerve endings become less sensitive to stimuli and that can lead to balance issues and falls.
A quick way to stimulate your nerve endings, on a daily basis, as you sit down reading or watching TV, is a simple massage.

Start at the top - the big toe pad is connected to the brain and the pineal and pituitary glands. Underneath the big pad is a spot for high blood pressure sufferers. The little toe pads are connected to our sinuses and the foot pad under the little toes, in the middle, is connected to the eyes and on the outside to the ears.

The pad under the big toe, as well as the middle portion of the foot next to it, is connected to our lungs.
Slide down to the middle of the foot and stimulate the liver, then a little below the kidneys, and a little below that the digestive system.

The heel in the middle is connected to our genitals, its side age to our hips and its very last bottom edge to our sciatica nerve.

Massage both feet, enjoy it, and enjoy good health!

Sunday, April 26, 2020

Coping with Covid-19 Fears, Practical Advice

How to keep coronavirus fears from affecting your mental health


Pare Down Sources of Information

  • Find a few sources you trust and stick with them. Choose one national or international source like the CDC, and another local nor national source so you can know what's going on in your community.
  • Limit the frequency of your updates. Things may be changing rapidly, but that doesn't mean you need to hang on every update. Think of it this way: If there is a tornado coming your way, you need information as soon as possible. The coronavirus is not a tornado. This may mean disabling constant notifications from news sites or social media.
  • Know when to walk away. Try to get used to not knowing every little thing, and feeling okay with uncertainty. Get your phone off your person so you're not tempted to check it. Leave your phone on a charging station when so it's not constantly with you, beckoning with new information.
  • Practice social media self discipline. No, it's not easy to limit time on social media. But chances are, the churn of information and commentary you get from friends and acquaintances on your Facebook feed is more incessant than actual updates from news or health organizations. Uninstall social media apps so it's harder to get to the content, or using tools to limit your aimless scrolling.
Name Your Fears

A pandemic is a rather abstract villain, so it may help to sit down and really consider what specific threats worry you. Do you think you will catch the coronavirus and die? The fear of death taps into one of our core existential fears. But you have to think about what your fear is, and how realistic it is. Consider your personal risk and how likely it is that you will actually come in contact with the virus.
And, even if your greatest fear is realized and you or someone you love fall ill, you may not have really thought about what comes next. Yes, you may get it. Yes, you may need treatment. But in all likelihood, hope is still not lost. We tend to overestimate the likelihood of something happening, and we tend to underestimate our capacity to deal with it.
Of course, you could have other, more practical fears. Some people may worry about what would happen if they were moved into self quarantine, or if they're not able to work. They're wondering if they would have access to groceries or childcare. Again, people have greater abilities to manage hardships than they think they do. Think about a plan. Consider options if you can't telework. Do you have savings? Do you have support?  Being prepared for your fears will help keep them in scale.

Think Outside Yourself

Since action can allay our anxieties, you may want to also consider what you can do to help others who may be more affected by the outbreak than you. Service workers, medical workers, hourly workers and people in the restaurant or entertainment industries may have their livelihoods paralyzed or have to put themselves in disproportionate danger. "It will be important for us as communities to think about how to support these individuals whose lives are going to be disrupted," Bufka says. "How can we even this burden and support those who have less options?"
After all, most of the precautions put in place to help stall the spread of the virus aren't just for you, as an individual. They're intended to keep entire communities and vulnerable demographics safe. Doing the same with your own time and care can empower you to see the real effects of the situation, rather than your abstract fears.

Seek Support but Do It Wisely

People are going to talk. But if you want to run to a friend to discuss the latest outbreak cluster or your family's contingency plans, try not to create an echo chamber. If you are overwhelmed, don't necessarily go to someone who has a similar level of fear.  Seek out someone who is handling it differently, who can check you on your anxiety and provide some advice."
If you can't seem to get a handle on your thoughts, professional help can be an option. It doesn't need to be a long-term thing. It means you can get some guidance for this specific situation.

Pay Attention to Your Basic Needs

In short, don't get so wrapped up in thinking about the coronavirus that you forget the essential, healthy practices that affect your wellbeing every day. In times of stress, we tend to minimize the importance of our foundation when we really should be paying more attention to it. Make sure you are:
  • Getting adequate sleep
  • Keeping up with proper nutrition
  • Getting outside as much a possible
  • Engaging in regular physical activity
Practicing mindfulness, meditation, yoga or other forms of self care can also help center you in routines and awareness, and keep your mind from wandering into the dark and sometimes irrational unknown.

Don’t Chastise Yourself for Worrying


Finally, don't let guilt be your anxiety's unwelcome companion. You are allowed to worry or feel bad. When discussing how to talk to children about the coronavirus, health experts say that people should acknowledge a child's fear and let them know their feelings are valid. Surely, you can afford yourself the same compassion. The key is to work toward understanding and contextualizing your fears so they don't keep you from living your healthiest life.




Wednesday, April 1, 2020

Prānāyāma- Breath Control. Lesson 2 - Ujjayi Kumbhaka

Ujjayi Kumbhaka 

Verse 2.53  - Haṭhayogapradīpikā
This prānāyāma, called ujjayi, can be done while moving, standing, sitting or walking. It removes disorders of the nadis (channels) and dhatu (bodily fluids).


Ujjayi Kumbhaka  -  Technique
You will inhale through both nostrils but exhale through the left nostril alone.
Ujjayi is known as the "psychic breath" because of its effect on the mind and it can occur spontaneously when concentration becomes deep and intense.  It helps relax the physical body and the mind,  leading to a deeper awareness of the subtle body and psychic sensitivity.   (The subtle body refers to energy in our bodies, such as chakras, that yogis believe to be part of our physical existence, even though it cannot be seen.) If ujjayi is used in meditation, kumbhaka (breath retention) is omitted and ujjayi is performed through both nostrils with natural inhales and exhales. 

1. Sit in a comfortable meditative pose or lie in savasana. Become aware of your natural breath and feel the air passing through the windpipe.

2. Slightly contract the region at the back of the throat as you do when you swallow.

3. Inhales and exhales are through the nose but there is a partial contraction of the glottis which produces a light snoring sound. The sound is coming from the throat, not the nose. Concentrate on the sound.  You can also incorporate khechari mudra by folding the tongue back so that the tip of the tongue presses the back of the soft palate.

4. After you inhale through both nostrils, hold your breath in kumbhaka, then exhale through the LEFT nostril only. Concentrate on the soft "snore" both on the inhale through both nostrils and the exhale through the left nostril.



Monday, March 30, 2020

Prānāyāma- Breath Control. Lesson 1 - Suryabheda Kumbhaka

Haṭhayogapradīpikā,    हठयोगप्रदीपिका 
or Light on Hatha Yoga

is a 15th-century yoga manual and a very good way to be introduced to prānāyāma - breath control. 
Below are a few verses on prānāyāma from the text of Haṭhayogapradīpikā, and below the verses a few simple breath techniques that use kumbhaka (breath retention):

Verses

2:40   As long as the breath is restrained in the body, the mind is devoid of thought and the gaze is centered between the eyebrows, why should there be fear of death?

2:41  By systematically restraining the prāna, the nadis and chakras are purified. Thus the prāna bursts open the doorway to sushumna and easily enters it.

2:43  By practicing the various kumbhakas (breath retention), wondrous perfections are obtained. Those who are the knowers practice the various kumbhakas to accomplish them.

2:44  The eight kumbhakas are suryabheda, ujjayi, seethari, sheetali, bhastrika, bhramari, moorchha and plavini.

Techniquies - kumbhakas

Suryabheda Kumbhaka  - right nostril breathing. 
Inhalation is done only through the right nostril, activating pingala nadi, and exhalation is always only through the left nostril.  
Suryabheda eliminates imbalance in the vata (wind) dosha and also balances the pitta and kapha doshas. Stimulation of the pingala nadi removes dullness from the body and mind, and the heat produced through the practice burns up impurities in the body. 

1. Sit in a comfortable meditative pose, relaxing the body. 
2. Close the left nostril and inhale slowly and deeply through the right nostril.
3. Hold both nostrils closed and lower your chin to chest to activate the throat lock (jalandhara bandha) and then the root lock (mula bandha) as you continue to hold your breath as long as you can.
4. Release mula bandha first, then jalandhara bandha and raise your chin to neutral.
5. Keeping the right nostril closed, open the left nostril and slowly exhale.

If necessary, take a few normal breaths between rounds, hands on the knees, eyes closed, concentrating on your third eye (sixth chakra).






Sunday, March 29, 2020

Mantras/Chants for Difficult Times



Universal Prayer
सर्वेशां स्वस्तिर्भवतु
सर्वेशां शान्तिर्भवतु
सर्वेशां पुर्णंभवतु
सर्वेशां मङ्गलंभवतु
शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः

Om Sarveshaam Svastir-Bhavatu |.  May there be Well-Being for All,
Sarveshaam Shaantir-Bhavatu |     May there be Peace for All,
Sarveshaam Purnnam-Bhavatu |     May there be Wholeness for All,
Sarveshaam Mangalam-Bhavatu |   May there be Happiness for All,
Om Shaantih Shaantih Shaantih ||.   Om Peace, Peace, Peace. 



Lokakshema
स्वस्तिप्रजाभ्यः परिपालयंतां न्यायेन मार्गेण महीं महीशाः
गोब्राह्मणेभ्यः शुभमस्तु नित्यं 
लोकाः समस्ताः सुखिनोभवंतु
शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः |

svasti prajabhyah paripalayantam nyayena margena mahim mahishah | 
gobrahmanebhyah shubham astu nityam lokah samastah sukhino bhavantu ||

May the rulers of the earth protect the well-being of the people,
With justice, by means of the right path.
May there always be good fortune for all living beings.
May all the inhabitants of the world be full of happiness.*


Om Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinah
सर्वे भवन्तु सुखिनः
सर्वे सन्तु निरामयाः
सर्वे भद्राणि पश्यन्तु
मा कश्चिद्दुःखभाग्भवेत्
शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः
Om Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinah Om, May All be Happy,
Sarve Santu Niraamayaah | May All be Free from Illness.
Sarve Bhadraanni Pashyantu May All See what is Auspicious,
Maa Kashcid-Duhkha-Bhaag-Bhavet | May no one Suffer.
Om Shaantih Shaantih Shaantih ||






Thursday, March 26, 2020

8 Ways to Help You Maintain Emotional Well-Being

8 Ways to Help You Maintain Emotional Well-Being
by KRISTIN A. MEEKHOF

During this unprecedented time, when emotions are confusing and stress seems to be the new normal, it is important to keep in mind that our emotional well-being is just as important as our physical well-being. Here are 8 ways to help you maintain and navigate your emotional wellness.

Develop Your Support Team   
Taking care of yourself emotionally as well as physically are top priorities. While you won’t be able to see your “team” in person, you can gather people together online to create a new community. You can also do this via text or email. This is your unofficial group of people who provide emotional support and friendly reminders that you’re each doing the best you can. Whatever challenges you face, ask for help from them and seek support. If you can set up weekly “check-ins” with each other or if there are important decisions to make, they will be there for you and you won’t feel alone.

Create a pause zone.
For some of you, merely opening an email means glancing at an invoice, insurance policy, or something related to finances. These statements can be very overwhelming. Unless it is absolutely necessary for you to pay (such as your utilities or groceries) think about giving yourself a “pause zone”. During this time of uncertainty, you may make a financial decision under stress that you later regret. And if you truly don’t understand something, like refinancing, or trust the financial advice you’re receiving, it is important to get another opinion.

Take stock of your emotions.
Any type of change can involve a transition. For example, the change is working from home, and the transition is learning how to transform your mind-set to accommodate a new schedule. With this, it is important to figure out when and how you can get your best work done. If taking frequent breaks interrupts work flow, then try putting your phone on silent until you can complete a task. If you start to feel anxiety, check in with yourself and try to determine if it is because of the task you’re asked to do or is it because you’re doing the same task but in a new environment (at home)?  When you recognize why you’re experiencing certain emotions, it will help you to have more compassion for yourself.

Develop and write down a health plan.
Anxiety often comes from the fear of the unknown and feeling that you don’t have control. So, spend a few minutes actually putting together a plan should you or your loved one start to feel ill. Write down the name of the doctor or locate the nearest medical center ahead of time (if you’re traveling) of where you will go. List your medications, so everything is in one place. Should you start to feel sick, write down the symptoms you are experiencing and the duration (of them).
Then, when you’re with the doctor, share your symptoms list so you won’t miss anything. And when your worried friend asks why you are traveling or if you’re afraid of getting sick, you can say, “I’ve thought of that, and I have a plan in place.” Have confidence in your plan. Be open to feedback but only to that which is helpful—not unduly critical.
If it is age appropriate, you can tell your children that you’ve thought about COVID-19, and you don’t want them to worry because you’ve put a family health plan together. This will give them confidence and a feeling of safety knowing you’re in charge of their wellness.

Keep in mind what you can control.
You do have control over the one significant thing that the CDC says can protect you from COVD-19: hand washing. You also can control your reactions to someone’s emotions. You can control how you feel about doing a task. You can control where and how often you check the CDC website, or where you’re getting your information from, or how often you’re on social media.
Set up three small self-care actions.
Now is an ideal time to read that book you’ve put aside or reach out to a friend (by cell, not in person) and have an authentic chat. In addition, there are various things, like yoga, planks, or mediation which will help you feel grounded in well-being instead of sinking in chaos. Remember, it can be small things, like reading a chapter in a book, doing sit-ups and eating a healthy snack that can be part of your self-care. If you can do three self- care action each day that enhance your well- being it will give you a feeling of success.

Get a gratitude buddy.
Gratitude is a very powerful emotion and when combined with other well-being practices (such as meditation or prayer) can be impactful. Even writing a few things down that you’re grateful for can shift your attention onto something that makes you happy. Get a “gratitude” buddy. Make a plan to send each other three things each day that you’re grateful for and if you’re really up for a challenge, try doing three different things each day. After a week, you’ll have 21 different things you’re grateful for.

Practice self compassion.
We’re in a high stress situation and mistakes can happen because you’re feeling on edge. When it happens, instead of berating yourself,  give yourself grace. Remind yourself that you’re doing the best you can do. You can repeat a mantra, like, “I’m choosing to be calm,” “I’m practicing kindness,” or “I’m choosing to do the next right thing.” Treating yourself with compassion will help you feel empowered to choose your next steps with a sense of calmness.

Seek Professional Mental Health Services
If you find your fears are disabling and preventing you from working or being able to keep up with your daily responsibilities, you should contact your doctor. They may recommend you seek professional therapy. Many mental health professionals, like myself, do work remotely, so you won’t need to worry about a commute. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness. It can help you discern what actions and next steps are healthy for you.


This essay was featured in the March 22nd edition of Maria Shriver’s newsletter The Sunday Paper. Subscribe at mariashriver.com.
Kristin A. Meekhof is an author, therapist, life coach, and a licensed social worker with more than 20 years of clinical experience. A nationally recognized expert on resiliency and gratitude, her best-selling book, A Widow’s Guide to Healing, was inspired by her own personal experience with widowhood, grief, and healing. She is a life-coach with clients throughout the United States and has privately advised some of the most influential people in media and politics.
She has spoken at the UN, Harvard Medical School and was a panelist at the Parliament of World Religions.